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PSYCHOTHERAPY & COUNSELLING SERVICES

Therapy for Trauma

PTSD, Complex Trauma (C-PTSD), Relational Trauma, Developmental Trauma

Toronto & across Ontario • Online Sessions
Burlington • In-person Sessions

What is trauma?

We can think of a traumatic event as an experience that involves a large degree of actual, threatened, or perceived physical or mental harm to ourselves or those around us.

Trauma can occur in the form of a single experience, or in the context of a long-term exposure to a traumatic environment.

For many people, long after the traumatic experience or environment is over, we might continue to experience trauma as a ‘wound’ in our system. We can get stuck in mental, emotional, or physical patterns that try to protect us, such as by anticipating danger or taking cover when danger is sensed.

In other words, when we encounter things that remind us (whether consciously or not) of a distressing time, mental, emotional and physical responses often reactivate which make it feel like the traumatic event or environment is happening in the present, even if we might know logically that we are safe in the present.   

Of course, this can be confusing, scary, and exhausting!

What are some common ways that trauma and the impacts of traumatic events are talked about?

  • Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (also known as PTSD): Can arise when we have experienced a single distressing event.

  • Complex PTSD (also known as complex trauma, CPTSD, C-PTSD): Can occur from experiencing repeated traumatic events or from when we live, work, or go to school (for example) in an environment that is traumatic.

  • Relational trauma: Can happen when we have experienced repeated distressing events in the context of relationships, such as abuse, neglect, bullying, or having no one to turn to.

  • Developmental trauma: Can occur when we have experienced traumatic events or environments during stages of development such as infancy, childhood, or adolescence.

What are some signs of unhealed trauma?

  • Feelings & Emotions

  • • Anxiety

  • • Emotional overwhelm

  • • Shame

  • • Feelings of worthlessness

Experiences & Patterns

  • • Panic attacks

  • • Insomnia or difficulty sleeping

  • • Nightmares

  • • Flashbacks

  • • Difficulties in relationships

  • • Patterns such as people pleasing

    • Ruminating or overthinking

    • Feeling stuck or unsure of our path

  • • Internal conflicts

  • • Feeling like it’s overwhelming when we are seen by others (even if people are commenting on a success)

Physical Sensations

  • • Being hypervigilant or always on edge

  • • Feeling numb or disconnected

  • • Dissociating

  • • Feeling unreal or out of body

  • • Chronic pain, headaches

  • • Difficulty breathing

  • • Clenching or churning in stomach

  • • Tense muscles

How can Yellow Leaf Therapy help with trauma?

When we experience symptoms of trauma, we can understand that there may be a ‘wound’ in our system. We get stuck in confusing, scary, or tiring responses and patterns when we encounter things that remind us of the traumatic event or environment.

Yellow Leaf Therapy can help by, for example, supporting in:

  • Noticing patterns of responses that are arising when we are triggered

  • Being curious about how our patterns of responses have helped or are trying to help us survive

  • Building skills to notice when we are triggered and to differentiate feeling memories of past traumatic times from present safety

  • Being curious about what a fuller life looks like, and taking steps to move toward this

At Yellow Leaf Therapy, I hold respect and compassion for the parts of you that have learned that it is their job to try and keep you safe in traumatic times. I also believe that these parts of you have many strengths.

Together, we hold a space of curiosity where we can think about what it means to you to live a more full life and take steps to get there. We go at a pace that feels okay for the different parts of who you are.

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